diff --git a/src/app/api/orders/ingest/route.ts b/src/app/api/orders/ingest/route.ts
index dde5cd7..eaecbc3 100644
--- a/src/app/api/orders/ingest/route.ts
+++ b/src/app/api/orders/ingest/route.ts
@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 import { NextRequest, NextResponse } from "next/server";
+import { queryRow } from "@/lib/db";
 import {
   parseOrderHTML,
   parseOrderAmendment,
@@ -11,7 +12,7 @@ import {
   NotAReceiptError,
   type MessageMeta,
 } from "@/lib/order-ingestion";
-import { merchantVerdict } from "@/lib/order-reviews";
+import { merchantVerdict, SECOND_CONSUMER_ID } from "@/lib/order-reviews";
 import { nudgeBlocks } from "@/lib/slack-blocks";
 
 /**
@@ -32,6 +33,17 @@ function authorised(req: NextRequest): boolean {
   return !!got && got === expected;
 }
 
+/** Does a split with the second consumer already exist on this transaction? */
+async function isShared(transactionId: number | null): Promise<boolean> {
+  if (!transactionId) return false;
+  const row = await queryRow<{ n: string }>(
+    `SELECT count(*) AS n FROM transaction_splits
+      WHERE transaction_id = $1 AND participant_id = $2`,
+    [transactionId, SECOND_CONSUMER_ID]
+  );
+  return Number(row?.n ?? 0) > 0;
+}
+
 export async function POST(req: NextRequest) {
   if (!authorised(req)) {
     return NextResponse.json({ error: "Unauthorized" }, { status: 401 });
@@ -113,7 +125,14 @@ export async function POST(req: NextRequest) {
               currency: order.currency,
               total: Number(order.totals.total_charged),
               isFamily: order.is_family,
-              shared: false,
+              // Read rather than assume. Today a freshly ingested order has no
+              // splits, so `false` would be right — the 140 ingested orders
+              // that do carry splits were split by hand after the backfill,
+              // not by a rule. But the card's label drives a destructive
+              // button: if a split rule is ever added, an assumed `false`
+              // would label a shared order "Not shared" and offer to remove
+              // the split. One query is cheaper than that failure.
+              shared: await isShared(result.transactionId),
               warn: verdict?.warn ?? false,
               warnNote: verdict?.history.find((h) => h.note)?.note ?? null,
             })
diff --git a/src/app/api/slack/interactive/route.ts b/src/app/api/slack/interactive/route.ts
index 8d78bc8..ad58f18 100644
--- a/src/app/api/slack/interactive/route.ts
+++ b/src/app/api/slack/interactive/route.ts
@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@ import { verifySlackSignature, participantForSlackUser } from "@/lib/slack-verif
 import { nudgeBlocks, detailsModal } from "@/lib/slack-blocks";
 import {
   RATINGS,
+  OWNER_PARTICIPANT_ID,
   SECOND_CONSUMER_ID,
   merchantVerdict,
   type Rating,
@@ -200,10 +201,23 @@ async function handleModalSubmit(payload: {
  * 2026-01-09 — so there is no settled historical obligation to lose.
  */
 async function toggleShare(transactionId: number) {
-  const existing = await queryRaw<{ participant_id: number }>(
-    `SELECT participant_id FROM transaction_splits WHERE transaction_id = $1`,
+  const existing = await queryRaw<{ participant_id: number; share_percent: string }>(
+    `SELECT participant_id, share_percent FROM transaction_splits WHERE transaction_id = $1`,
     [transactionId]
   );
+
+  // Refuse to touch an arrangement this button cannot express. Splits are made
+  // by hand here, so a third participant or an uneven share is deliberate — and
+  // a one-tap button that silently flattened it would destroy a decision made
+  // with more care than the tap that undid it.
+  const foreign = existing.filter(
+    (e) => e.participant_id !== SECOND_CONSUMER_ID && e.participant_id !== OWNER_PARTICIPANT_ID
+  );
+  const uneven = existing.some(
+    (e) => e.participant_id === SECOND_CONSUMER_ID && Number(e.share_percent) !== 50
+  );
+  if (foreign.length || uneven) return;
+
   if (existing.some((e) => e.participant_id === SECOND_CONSUMER_ID)) {
     await queryRaw(`DELETE FROM transaction_splits WHERE transaction_id = $1`, [
       transactionId,